Animosiity - why do some people hate fountain pens?
Just had an unpleasant run in with someone I've had to do business with.
She asked me to fill in a form. Since I had my pens out I used one of them (filled with sensible blue-black Quink, not some fancy fuchsia shimmer ink) to fill the form in.
Back she came a while later with a triumphant look on her face.
"Those stupid pens of yours. You need to use a biro."
Then delivered herself of the sentiment that by using a fountain pen I am somehow putting myself above other people and being arrogant.
Has anyone else experienced this kind of animosity to fountain pens? What drives it? I can understand she might have been annoyed that the form had to be completed again - but if it was that important I would have expected her to ascertain the fact that ballpoint was required in the first place.
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I haven't but "those stupid pens of yours. You need to use a biro." would have used up my very short fuse. :(
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amk
..."Those stupid pens of yours. You need to use a biro."
Then delivered herself of the sentiment that by using a fountain pen I am somehow putting myself above other people and being arrogant...
LOL, some of my fountain pens are above the rest, some are more middle of the road. I aim for something better than barely acceptable.
I wonder which of my pens are the most arrogant?
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You have to keep in mind that the bulk of the world's population has no experience with fountain pens, and some of those people treat anything outside of their orbit as irrelevant and inconvenient. She drive a Mercedes by any chance?
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Hate to break it to you: the animosity is aimed at you. The FP was merely the conduit to funnel her venom.
Question regarding your term "triumphant look:" what do you think happened to make her appear triumphant? Was the ink bleeding/running the cause of the form having to be redone?
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Petty things like this are part of the local pecking order. It's reflected, reversed, turned inside out..., over and over... Next year at this time, maybe shorter time, weeks or months it's somehow acted out from your point of view.
On the other side, fountain pens can be very flashy, show off, prestigous, simple, understated, more or less gold, just like Fred mentioned, we do this with everything; clothes, sports, accessoires,... There is this ever conflicting dymanic of fitting in yet standing out as an idividual, being true to your self, stand up for others, be part of your community...
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I've not experienced animosity yet. If anyone even notices in the first place it is sometimes followed by interest.
My unfounded conjecture is that in the 80s or 90s, fountain pens, specifically Montblanc pens, were primarily used as status symbols in the US, sort of like Rolex watches, which are still burdened with some cultural resentment and animosity.
This class of writing instrument now seems to be growing in popularity among a wider audience, and as always is offered in a wide array of price tiers, so any perception of them as a status symbol, in general, is incorrect.
Meanwhile... Why didn't the fountain pen work for the forms? Bleeding? Feathering? Some issue with duplicates?
It has been really difficult to find a pen and ink combo that doesn't feather (at all) or show through on extremely crappy paper. I have maybe two inks out of dozens I can say that about.
I've not had to fill out any duplicate forms lately but I don't have many pens with nibs that could take the heavy pressure I would use with a ballpoint on such forms.
I may be remembering inaccurately but I think modern duplicate forms take more pressure than old carbon paper did. If that's true then would vintage manifold nibs be insufficient?
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Does anyone actually use the term "biro" except us pen snobs? I find it odd that someone that was not "into" the pen thing would use that term. Maybe it's regional. I've never heard anyone use the term in America.
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Just answer that your pen was a gift from your grandmother and that your grandfather used it in school. Shuts up most people.
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heraclitus682
Maybe it's regional. I've never heard anyone use the term in America.
Nor I. Must be a British thing. OTOH, I live in one of the two pockets of America where drinking fountains are called "bubblers" after some ancient brand (IIRC). Oddly, if you ask where the "water fountain" is, you may get a blank stare as they wonder why anybody would be searching for a fountain and where the nearest one might be. I guess "drinking fountain" is pretty safe, but IIRC, you may be directed to what is often referred to as a "water cooler" elsewhere.
I tend to agree with Kazoolaw. The fountain pen is just a focal point. The social context, including the attitude, is being set by other factors than just the FP use itself. Ballpoints might be required by decree (in which case a felt-tip would also not be accepted), because of bleed-through, a degree of permanence (in which case most FP ink would be regarded more or less like writing in pencil), desire for water resistance (pencil is great for this, ironically), or on multi-part forms.
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Petty things like this are part of the local pecking order. It's reflected, reversed, turned inside out..., over and over... Next year at this time, maybe shorter time, weeks or months it's somehow acted out from your point of view.
On the other side, fountain pens can be very flashy, show off, prestigous, simple, understated, more or less gold, just like Fred mentioned, we do this with everything; clothes, sports, accessoires,... There is this ever conflicting dymanic of fitting in yet standing out as an idividual, being true to your self, stand up for others, be part of your community...
Thank you for hitting the nail right on the head, and to Fred, Kazoolaw, Azkid, and Mhosea for your excellent points. And I'll keep Farmboy's reply in mind.
It's about her bad day, not you or your pens.
Bonne journée
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heraclitus682
Maybe it's regional. I've never heard anyone use the term in America.
Nor I. Must be a British thing. OTOH, I live in one of the two pockets of America where drinking fountains are called "bubblers" after some ancient brand (IIRC). Oddly, if you ask where the "water fountain" is, you may get a blank stare as they wonder why anybody would be
searching for a fountain and where the nearest one might be. I guess "drinking fountain" is pretty safe, but IIRC, you may be directed to what is often referred to as a "water cooler" elsewhere.
I tend to agree with Kazoolaw. The fountain pen is just a focal point. The social context, including the attitude, is being set by other factors than just the FP use itself. Ballpoints might be required by decree (in which case a felt-tip would also not be accepted), because of bleed-through, a degree of permanence (in which case most FP ink would be regarded more or less like writing in pencil), desire for water resistance (pencil is great for this, ironically), or on multi-part forms.
You are right, Biro is a comment expression in the UK, Ireland, Australia and Italy for a ball point pen, I think due to market dominance of Biro pens in the early days of ball point pen use.
All apart from my daughter who for too many years called every writing implement a crayon.
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"Biro" - For Americans, think in terms of Jello, Xerox and Band-Aid. The first brand to flood the market with its product (i.e., Biro ballpoint pens) risks losing its tradename to becoming just another word in our vocabulary.
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amk
Just had an unpleasant run in with someone I've had to do business with.
She asked me to fill in a form. Since I had my pens out I used one of them (filled with sensible blue-black Quink, not some fancy fuchsia shimmer ink) to fill the form in.
Back she came a while later with a triumphant look on her face.
"Those stupid pens of yours. You need to use a biro."
Then delivered herself of the sentiment that by using a fountain pen I am somehow putting myself above other people and being arrogant.
Has anyone else experienced this kind of animosity to fountain pens? What drives it? I can understand she might have been annoyed that the form had to be completed again - but if it was that important I would have expected her to ascertain the fact that ballpoint was required in the first place.
Oh, please. What about her arrogance in telling other people what kind of pen to use? Isn't she taking a position of superiority to assume she knows what's best for anyone else, period?
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It's not as if ballpoints don't have their problems. I can't even get them to write half the time.
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amk
Then delivered herself of the sentiment that by using a fountain pen I am somehow putting myself above other people and being arrogant.
My reply: "I choose to use a fountain pen because that is what I was taught to write with. How you choose to interpret that is your issue, not mine. Please try and observe at least a minimum standard of professionalism when dealing with your colleagues."
"Oh, and you might want to talk to a therapist about your insecurities..."
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To be honest you need to use a ballpoint for forms. Her attitude as you report is is unacceptable, but don't use a fountain pen for this type of stuff.
I don't think there's anything arrogant about fountain pens. Maybe she thinks people who read and write are arrogant. Kazoolaw is being harsh, but I would say you obviously have a bad relationship with this person in addition to her disliking pens. Maybe you've done this to her before with a form and she is getting ticked that you like to waste time.
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I'm familiar with the term "biro" for a ballpoint pen, but having read a biography of Lazlo Biro, and having googled an audio file of his name being spoken by a Hungarian, I've found that the British are saying it incorrectly. :)
Sorry, sorry, off topic, and it's not as if we Americans never mispronounce anything. Seriously, I hope you were in a position to insist that she accept the form as written; this is not clear from the original post.
I've never run into actual hostility to my use of fountain pens. Occasionally someone will smile and roll his eyes. One co-worker told me that ballpoints wrote more smoothly, and that in any case, fountain pens were just for lawyers, doctors, and other highly paid professionals, not for a humble (if well paid) electronics technician such as myself. But it wasn't really a nasty comment, even with the implication that I was putting on airs. This co-worker was fired some months later, not for his ideas about writing instruments, though.
Most people show no sign of even noticing that I'm using a fountain pen, unless they ask to borrow it, and I fish a ballpoint out of a different pocket. A few express interest and ask a few questions. I certainly haven't encountered the nastiness that AMK describes.
There's no reason I know of why a fountain pen shouldn't be used to fill out any form, provided the ink is at least as permanent as a typical ballpoint and the paper will accept it. I remember voluntarily switching to ballpoint on one form because my fountain pen was bleeding and feathering on the cheap paper.
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My experience using fountain pens "in public" (usually in a check writing context) has been quite positive. Several different clerks at the grocery store I frequent have complimented me on my pens. If there's not much of a line to worry about, I take a moment to explain how it works and that it fills from a bottle of ink. Before my bank degraded the quality of paper in the checks it supplies, I frequently used a stub nib and got some nice compliments on my handwriting (which isn't all that great). One clerk insisted on showing a stub-handwritten check to a couple of her co-workers. Another (older) clerk at Costco said, "Man, you're Old School," and it was meant as a compliment.
I don't recall ever having my use of a fountain pen evoke a negative reaction.