On the one hand, I can understand why many sellers make this point. However, there are several methods of shipping with tracking from the US to international destinations, and their prices can vary dramatically. So does everything need to be sent by the very expensive Express Service?
I may be wrong, but to ship from the US to the UK brings up many tracked options. Pens or bottles of ink, generally don't come in large boxes, or weigh heavy weights, so the USPS 'Small packet' rate would usually apply.
I have bought several pens from a US seller on FPN. He sends them by USPS 1st class International mail, and that's very cheap and offers tracking to the UK. He's happy to use that method, and it obviously works for him, but I know it's not everyone's choice.
When Laura was doing Mystery Ink, she shipped everything by USPS 1st Class International, and she always knew when it had arrived, so I am aware that the service is very quick and very reliable, and is tracked.
In fact, I have never had anything fail to arrive from anywhere in the world. Maybe I've been lucky?
On the other hand, when I sell, I tend to consider how much of a risk I might need to take. If something is only worth $20, I would send it by the least expensive service. If it was worth $200, then I would send it insured. Horses for courses. I personally don't worry so much about charging a buyer lot's of money for shipping and insuring an item that's only worth $20.
I would also never ask for someone to pay me by PayPal 'friends and family'. That's not so much 'putting one's money where one's mouth is.' It's not allowed by PayPal, and if I did something that they didn't allow, I might lose my account.
On the other hand, when I've had a friend with whom I've exchanged ink bottles or samples, or paid for something to be shipped from a friend, I'm more than happy to send some funds as a 'friends and family' payment. I think there's a subtle difference.
Ebay sellers seem to have different rules. Lots of them use the hated ebay 'Global Shipping Program'. I would never buy from any seller who uses that. I just press the back button, rather than trying to enter into a discussion. They have chosen that for a reason, and it's not worth my while asking for something different.
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