It seems like he's accepting payments from multiple people and moving the money around while making people wait. Maybe he's using the money day trading or something! It's frustrating to say the least.
If there is going to be any delay in shipment by the seller, she/he should clearly indicate that in advance. Giving excuses later, like camping, hunting, etc. seem frivolous because if they know they are such an outdoor person with choppy access to the internet and postal service, it isn't difficult to set that expectation in the 'for sale' post to begin with. Usually if it takes longer than a couple of days for the seller to ship, I would expect a note indicating that there would be a delay. Other excuses like needing money to buy Christmas presents are also unacceptable because if they really need the money, all (and the least) they need to do is ship the pen on time. The buyer isn't, in any way, liable for the seller's poor planning and personal life.
I'm always wary of sellers who ask for payments via channels that have no buyer protection. The pen is certainly not worth it if you're going to be anxious about receiving the pen or not. FPGeeks and FPN have a feedback feature, which is extremely helpful to give an idea of who you're dealing with and assess the risk.
Thanks for the heads up on the seller. I think, setting expectations is very important when doing business. Though you should be careful when using payment options with no buyer protection, the seller's conduct in your case is certainly unacceptable, in my opinion. Our pen community is a beautiful, inclusive, friendly and compassionate place. Almost all of us thrive to make our pen interactions a relaxing and fulfilling experience, thereby sharing our joy of using fountain pens. Sometimes, sadly, we experience something bad. I hope that it ends well for you and that the seller also understands that his way of doing things is less than optimal for the buyer.
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